‘What Saving Lives Means to Me’

WyKisha's brother, Johnny, was especially close to her son, Nick.
Today’s blog entry comes from WyKisha Thomas-McKinney, our Community Advocates Volunteer Coordinator. While WyKisha helps save lives every day in her job at The Blood Center, she also is passionate about another cause – suicide prevention.
Labor Day marks the end of the summer, a day of rest and relaxation for all hard-working Americans. While most people will be enjoying their three-day weekend at picnics, barbecues and football games, I will still be working hard.
I have worked in the nonprofit sect for over 10 years: first, teaching the community about HIV and the importance of getting tested, then teaching volunteers how to become crisis counselors, and now supporting the Community Advocates for The Blood Center.
The Community Advocates’ blood drives are wonderful opportunities to raise awareness and support for the Neighborhood Donor Centers. They save lives by educating their communities and encouraging them to Commit for Life. I’m happy to do whatever I can to make them successful because I understand that for every person that attends their blood drive, we have to potential to save three more. I guess you could say that my entire career has been based on the business of saving lives. It’s hard work, but it’s a labor of love and one that cannot take a day of rest.
This Labor Day weekend, I’ll be working to save lives in a different way. National Suicide Prevention Week, themed “Families, Community Systems and Suicide,” is Sept. 5 through 11. This week is important to me because my brother, Johnny, died by suicide six years ago, and it just so happens that Sept. 5, the first day of National Suicide Prevention Week, is his birthday.
In the past, Johnny’s birthday has been very difficult for my family and me to endure. It’s a constant reminder that he’s not here with us anymore. This year my family and I have vowed not to be sad or upset on his special day, but to celebrate. My brother would be more than upset that we are spending his birthday, which he often proclaimed to be a national holiday, sad and grieving. So we’re going to throw a party for Johnny to help raise awareness of depression and suicide. There will be music, food and cake, all the essentials for a great party, as well as goody bags with filled with pamphlets, bookmarks and other resources for our guests.
Our goal for this party is not to make light of a very serious situation, but to open the door for discussion in an environment that is warm and welcoming – a place where our guests can be “edutained” (educated and entertained).
To learn more about National Suicide Prevention Week, please visit the American Association of Suicidology.


For many Commit for Life blood donors, August is one of their favorite months of the year to donate. For years now, individuals have timed their donations so that they’re able to give during the month of August, and groups have scheduled their blood drives far in advance to obtain a prime August date.
Most days I don’t get to talk to donors directly unless, in some way, we haven’t met their expectations. However, today was different. Today I spoke to a donor to ask him to be an honoree in our “Circle of Life” bike tour. As an honoree, his picture and story would serve as a representative of blood donors across Texas.
As the largest not-for-profit healthcare system in Texas, it should come as no surprise that 
